It's been 5 years....SO much to catch you up on!!!
Recalling the original post, my friend was in a 5 year relationship and expressed a want to get married. He did everything to stall, so she started going out and partying. Then he decided to join the military and sadly they had ended things. Fast forward - my friend is now happily married, to the same beau in the military and after a great deal of work and sacrifice, they're both parents.
I'll rewind a little... He left for boot camp, while he was gone, she didn't seem to want to party and go out all the time anymore. She quickly got bored, because it was really just show for him. He wasn't there to appreciate it. Of course, while he was away in boot camp, he really started missing her, so they started talking again. Once out of boot camp, they were so elated to see each other. They continued to work on their new long distance relationship and he finally got up the nerve to ask for her hand in marriage. He put a ring on her finger and fulfilled a dream for her. They had a lovely outdoor wedding. Everyone had a wonderful time.
Lucky bastard got orders to be stationed in Hawaii!! So they packed up and were lucky enough to be there for 2 years. He also did a tour in Afghanistan and when he came back they began trying to have a baby. It was a very emotional very difficult process. They were a bit luckier than most as it only took two tries to get in vitro right. Now they've got a beautiful precious little daughter. She'll be a year old soon.
Moral of my story. Two people that really love each other may not always see things eye to eye, it doesn't always mean the relationship is over. "Sometimes things fall apart, so better things can come together". They are very loving parents, loving each other and they've found a happy medium and the ability to communicate and compromise. I'm incredibly happy for my friend. I'm looking forward to her visit within the next month or so.
Recalling the original post, my friend was in a 5 year relationship and expressed a want to get married. He did everything to stall, so she started going out and partying. Then he decided to join the military and sadly they had ended things. Fast forward - my friend is now happily married, to the same beau in the military and after a great deal of work and sacrifice, they're both parents.
I'll rewind a little... He left for boot camp, while he was gone, she didn't seem to want to party and go out all the time anymore. She quickly got bored, because it was really just show for him. He wasn't there to appreciate it. Of course, while he was away in boot camp, he really started missing her, so they started talking again. Once out of boot camp, they were so elated to see each other. They continued to work on their new long distance relationship and he finally got up the nerve to ask for her hand in marriage. He put a ring on her finger and fulfilled a dream for her. They had a lovely outdoor wedding. Everyone had a wonderful time.
Lucky bastard got orders to be stationed in Hawaii!! So they packed up and were lucky enough to be there for 2 years. He also did a tour in Afghanistan and when he came back they began trying to have a baby. It was a very emotional very difficult process. They were a bit luckier than most as it only took two tries to get in vitro right. Now they've got a beautiful precious little daughter. She'll be a year old soon.
Moral of my story. Two people that really love each other may not always see things eye to eye, it doesn't always mean the relationship is over. "Sometimes things fall apart, so better things can come together". They are very loving parents, loving each other and they've found a happy medium and the ability to communicate and compromise. I'm incredibly happy for my friend. I'm looking forward to her visit within the next month or so.
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