Search the world over and you will always find that guy that draws females like shit draws flies. And he can come off super suave and charismatic. Putting everything out there. You know - don't go falling in love with me. I'm seeing other women, we aren't dating, I'm just out of a bad relatioinship, I dont want to be in a new one.
Silly girl you start to care about the guy, because you've actually become a victim of your own naivety. You believe that the way you feel when you're with him is somehow the way he feels about you. Something happens. He trips up. Says something or does something and instinct calls it out. You ask a question fully on faith that no matter how ridiculous the question or how bad the answer could hurt - he's going to tell the truth. It's what you agreed to...but he doesn't. And as time goes by you stumble upon truths he continues to omit and lies you shouldn't have to question.
What the...you know this can't be happening. Despite the lack of exclusivity you both set boundaries. In an open relationship with very little drawn in the sand what's the point of lying??
So you can't help but wonder and think and dig deep within yourself, ask friends for insight or advice, perhaps a devil's advocate. Some say run, others say - he likes you, some say he's gay, and still others think he's testing you. Some say he's been hurt, can't trust women and doesn't know how to stop bein the player. Give it time. I say what do you want? Why are you waiting on this guy? Sure it matters because you care. But you should come first.
Stop obsessing. Go out. Have fun. If it doesnt feel right, move on. If you think there's something there - see where it goes. Otherwie, stop whining and savor life.
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