My toxic trait is I can get disrespectful if some random guy I don’t know tries to call me by any kind of affectionate name other than my actual name.
The only man allowed to call me those kind of intimate names is the exclusive man in my life. I also need to know he’s not doling out those same names to every other female.
On the other side of that, I’m southern, so I use terms of endearment like: sweetheart, sugar, cupcake, darling, love.
Here’s the thing, if there was a guy in my life and he was uncomfortable with my southern manners, I would full on stop. Period.
Getting called baby by some random dude means I will be educating said dude that I am in fact - Not his baby.
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